THIS IS NO. 7 IN THE “I AM” SERIES AND TODAY I’M GOING TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT THE “I AM” IN A RELATIONSHIP.

WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH OURSELVES FIRST AND FOREMOST AND THEN OF COURSE WE ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING IN OUR WORLD. IF WE ARE NOT FULLY CONNECTED INTO OUR OWN “I AM” THAT IS WHO WE ARE ON A SPIRITUAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL AND PHYSICAL LEVEL, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT IN FACT IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO CONNECT PARTICULARLY HEART TO HEART ON AN EMOTIONAL LEVEL TO OTHERS.

WE COULD BE CONNECTING SOCIALLY, OR ON AN INTELLECTUAL LEVEL WITH COLLEAGUES AT WORK BUT WE MAY FEEL LIKE THERE IS SOME AREA WHERE WE ARE ACTUALLY DISCONNECTED SIMPLY BECAUSE WE ARE NOT CONNECTED FULLY TO OUR OWN “I AM”.

WHAT CREATES A DISCONNECT FROM SELF IS A VARIETY OF REASONS – WHAT I FOUND PRIMARILY IS ABUSE – VERBAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, PSYCHOLOGICAL, SEXUAL ABUSE AND PHYSICAL– ALL THESE FORMS OF ABUSE PARTICULARLY WHEN THEY HAPPEN IN A PERSON OR A CHILD WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG, CREATES A DISCONNECT FROM THE BLUEPRINT OF WHO YOU ARE.

IT ALSO TENDS TO CREATE A PSEUDO PERSON THAT IS LIVING LIFE FROM A SATELLITE AREA WHICH MEANS THAT YOU ARE NOT FULLY ENGAGED OR CONNECTED INTO THE BLUEPRINT OF WHO YOU WERE BORN TO BE YOU ARE STILL A PERSON THAT IS FULLY FUNCTIONAL BUT IS NOT FULLY CONNECTED INTO THAT KNOWLEDGE OF SELF.

THE REASON WHY THIS OCCURS IS THAT IT FEELS SAFER FOR THE PERSON TO LIVE IN A ZONE OR A SATELLITE SPACE WHERE THEY CAN IMAGINE ALL SORTS OF WONDERFUL THINGS. THEIR IMAGINERY WORLD OR THE WORLD THAT THEY HAVE CREATED CAN FEEL REALLY SAFE AND LOVELY AND FULL OF PLEASURABLE THINGS WHEN THEIR OWN REALITY IS STARK OR DARK OR UNCOMFORTABLE OR UNPLEASANT.

WHAT HAPPENS IS THOSE CHILDREN WHO GREW UP IN AN AGGRESSIVE HOME OR A HOME WHERE THERE WAS ALCOHOLISM OR WHERE THERE WAS SOME FORM OF VIOLENCE WHETHER DOMESTIC OR SOME FORM OF ABUSE, TEND TO CONTINUE TO LIVE IN THE SATELLITE ZONE.

NOW WHEN THEY ARE WANTING TO CONNECT, LET’S SAY TO A RELATIONSHIP, THEY ARE NOT FULLY CONNECTED TO THEMSELVES SO WHO IS ACTUALLY CONNECTING TO THAT RELATIONSHIP? IT IS THE PSEUDO PERSON, THE PERSON THAT THEY HAVE CREATED THAT IS NOT THE AUTHENTIC PERSON – IT IS A PERSON OF THEIR OWN CREATION – IT IS NOT THE ORIGINAL BLUEPRINT OF WHO THEY WERE BORN TO BE.

I HAVE EVEN HAD MOTHERS WHO SAY THEY CAN’T CONNECT TO THEIR BABIES OR TO THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY ARE REALLY JUST DISCONNECTED FROM WHO THEY ARE AND THIS OF COURSE WILL HAMPER OR DIMINISH THE OPPORTUNITY OR PROSPECT OF CONNECTING TO THEIR CHILDREN OR CHILD.

WITH A RELATIONSHIP IT IS HARD TO CONNECT TO ANOTHER BEING WHEN YOU ARE NOT CONNECTED TO YOURSELF SO YOU WILL ALWAYS FEEL LIKE THERE IS A BIT OF A DISCONNECT. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT THAT YOU RECONNECT AND FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE WHO THAT AUTHENTIC ORIGINAL PERSON IS.

HAVE SOME INNER DIALOGUE GOING WITH YOURSELF – FIND OUT WHAT IT IS YOU REALLY LIKE AND WHAT IT IS YOU REALLY LOVE AND WHAT IT IS THAT YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT. A LOT OF PEOPLE DON’T KNOW THAT AND CAN’T MAKE DECISIONS BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT CONNECTED INTO THEIR OWN “I AM”.

THEY CAN’T FORMULATE THEIR OWN OPINIONS AND THIS IS WHY THEY TEND TO BE VERY CONTROLLED THROUGH OR PRESCRIBED TO BY OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS BECAUSE THEY SIMPLY DON’T HAVE THEIR OWN BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT CONNECTED INTO THE KNOWLEDGE OF SELF AND THIS MAKES IT VERY DIFFICULT FOR US TO HAVE MEANINGFUL, LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS.

ANOTHER THING THAT DOES CREATE DISCONNECT IS PERSONALITY MODIFICATION SO I WILL BE DISCUSSING THIS IN THE NEXT VIDEO OF THIS SERIES WHICH WILL BE VIDEO NO. 8. I HOPE THAT THIS HAS BEEN HELPFUL TO YOU SO PLEASE LOOK OUT FOR IT, LIKE IT AND SHARE IT. THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE IN DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS TODAY BUT THE KEY IS REALLY QUITE SIMPLE, CONNECT INTO YOURSELF SO YOU CAN CONNECT TO OTHERS.

I HOPE YOU HAVE ENJOYED THIS, HAVE A REALLY GOOD DAY AND GOODBYE UNTIL NEXT TIME!