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THE "I AM" SERIES - PART 8 - PERSONALITY MODIFICATION

Posted on December 17, 2019 at 9:45 AM

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TODAY IS NO. 8 IN THE “I AM” SERIES AND I AM GOING TO BE COVERING WHAT IS A TENDENCY TO DO WHAT WE CALL PERSONALITY MODIFICATION A BIT LIKE THE CAMELION THAT KEEPS ON CHANGING IT’S APPEARANCE TO SUIT OR BLEND INTO IT’S ENVIRONMENT, SOMETIMES JUST TO MAKE IT INVISIBLE, OR SUIT OR CAMOFLAGE IT.

 

WHAT WE WANT TO DO IS STOP THIS TENDENCY BECAUSE IT DETRACTS FROM YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF. IT TAKES AWAY YOUR ABILITY TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE SOMETIMES WE CAN CHANGE OURSELVES SO MANY TIMES TO SUIT SO MANY DIFFERENT PEOPLE THAT IT CREATES CONFUSION.

 

AS CHILDREN WE TEND TO CHANGE OURSELVES TO SUIT OUR PARENTS, SIBLINGS, FRIENDS AT SCHOOL, TEACHERS AND EVENTUALLY AS WE GET OLDER, OUR COLLEAGUES AND PARTNERS WHAT THIS DOES IS STOPS US FROM UNDERSTANDING AND CONNECTING SOLIDLY INTO THE KNOWLEDGE OF SELF. WHO WE GENIUNELY AND SINCERELY ARE THE PURE ESSENCE OF OUR PERSON.

 

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT THAT WHEN WE ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP THAT THE PERSON THAT FALLS IN LOVE WITH US, FALLS IN LOVE WITH OUR REAL AUTHENTIC SELF THAT THIS IS WHAT IS ON DISPLAY. WE TEND TO CREATE A PERSONA WHICH LOOKS VERY NICE AND ACTS VERY WELL AND IS VERY ATTRACTIVE IN MANY WAYS BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY WE CAN’T SUSTAIN THAT AND THIS IS WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP STARTS TO CRUMBLE BECAUSE THE PERSON THAT IS NOW BEING MANIFESTED IS THE AUTHENTIC SELF OR PART OF THE AUTHENTIC SELF IF WE ARE NOT FULLY CONNECTED.

 

WHEN WE ARE INTERACTING WITH OUR WORLD IT NEEDS TO BE FROM THAT SPACE OF WHO WE WERE BORN TO BE THAT GENUINE AUTHENTIC SELF. WE NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE THAT AUTHENTIC SELF SO WE WON’T WANT TO ADD ON TO OR TAKE AWAY FROM IT BECAUSE IN DOING THIS WE WOULD BE SEPARATING OURSELVES FROM OUR BLUEPRINT AND CREATING A PERSONA THAT IS NOT REAL – LIKE AN ILLUSION. EVENTUALLY THE MASK HAS TO DROP AS WE CAN’T SUSTAIN THE PERSONA AND THIS WILL THEN CREATE A RIFT IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR FRIENDS, FAMILY, COLLEAGUES AND WITH OUR PARTNERS.

 

LEARN TO LOVE THAT PERSON AND JUST BE THAT PERSON AND DISPLAY THAT PERSON IN A WAY THAT IS SINCERE AND THE ONES THAT DO LOVE AND RESONATE WITH YOU WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOU AND WILL WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND WILL WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU AND ENJOY BEING WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND THEY CAN FEEL THAT. IT COMES ACROSS AS AUTHENTIC AND GENUINE AND THIS IS WHAT IS REALLY ATTRACTIVE.

 

THAT IS WHAT IS THE MAGNETIC FORCE THAT DRAWS INTO YOUR ENVIRONMENT PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU FOR BEING WHO YOU ARE NOT FOR A MANUFACTURED PERSONA OR A CREATION OF YOUR OWN IMAGINATION THAT YOU THINK PEOPLE ARE WANTING TO BE.

 

WE TEND TO DO THIS FROM VERY YOUNG BUT EVENTUALLY AS WE GET OLDER AND MATURE, WE RECOGNIZE THE IMPORTANCE OF JUST BEING OURSELVES – IT TAKES AWAY A LOT OF THE TENSION AND STRESS AND YOU CAN JUST BE MORE CALM IN DISPLAYING WHO YOU ARE.

 

WE ARE ALL UNIQUE, JUST LIKE OUR FINGERPRINTS. YOU GET SOME WHO ARE GREGARIOUS AND SOME WHO ARE VERY OUTGOING AND HAVING VERY BIG PERSONALITIES AND YOU HAVE SOME WHO ARE SHY AND MORE INHIBITED AND THAT’S OKAY! JUST BE YOURSELF AND LOVE BEING YOURSELF AND YOU WILL FIND THOSE WHO GRAVITATE TOWARDS YOU AND ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU ARE THOSE WHO ON A DEEP LEVEL RESONATE WITH WHO YOU ARE.

 

WHEN WE ARE NOT AUTHENTIC, WHO CAN RESONATE WITH US? THE PERSON WE HAVE CREATED IS A SHELL OF A PERSON IT IS NOT REALLY A REAL PERSON, IT IS SOMEONE WHO IS NOT TRUE OR GENUINE AND AT THE END OF THE DAY DOESN’T EVEN EXIST. IT IS VITAL THAT WE RECOGNIZE THIS AND WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO DISPLAY WHO WE REALLY ARE AND BE HAPPY WITH DOING THAT. THIS WAY WE WILL CONNECT WELL AND HAVE GOOD FOUNDATIONS FOR OUR FRIENDSHIPS AND RELATIONSHIPS AND FEEL MUCH MORE SELF RESPECT IN THAT SINCE WE ARE COMING FROM A SPACE OF TRUE, AUTHENTIC BEING.

 

I HOPE YOU HAVE ENJOYED THIS. I WOULD BE VERY APPRECIATIVE IF YOU COULD LIKE IT AND SHARE IT WITH OTHERS AS THERE ARE MANY WHO WOULD BENEFIT BY KNOWING THIS INFORMATION AND RECOGNIZE THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING AUTHENTIC.

 

THE NEXT VIDEO I WILL BE MAKING WILL BE ABOUT THE “I AM” IN A NARCISSISTIC RELATIONSHIP.

 

CHAT SOON! HAVE A LOVELY DAY!

WISHING YOU WELLNESS!

 

 

P.S. PLEASE FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK AND OR INSTAGRAM AND SHARE THIS INFORMATION WITH YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES - YOU MAY CHANGE SOMEONE’S LIFE BY DOING SO.

 

 


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